One of the hardest parts for me as a man to understand was setting boundaries with women. If you are like me, you adore women. So when it comes to standing up to a woman, and creating 'friction' in a relationship, it does not seem like the right move to do with a girl you are interested in. I am going to show you why you MUST have boundaries when dating because it shows your confidence as a man , which we know is extremely attractive to a woman. This is exactly the point in the conversation where I could either back down and apologize - or stand strong and see what happens.
12 guys on what things make women 'stand out from the rest'
Why Setting Boundaries With Women Shows You Are a Man With Confidence
Forget immaculate make-up or witty one-liners. The secret of seduction is as simple as standing next to your less attractive friend. And if that company is less attractive, or dare we say it, ugly, the first person seems all the more appealing. Looking good: Kate Moss goes out partying with singer Beth Ditto right. Research shows standing next to a less attractive friend makes you look better. Anthony Little, of Stirling University, said: 'You get a bit of a contrast effect when you stand beside someone of the same sex. On the other hand, exceptionally good-looking friends may cast you in a rather bad light and so should not be invited out on the town.
The idea of women trying 'standing out from the rest' makes my soul die a little bit. It makes out like we're all fighting and climbing over each other to make it to the top of the pile, where a gorgeous man will make our lives complete by putting his P in our V. In short: gross and outdated. But this Reddit thread asked straight dudes to explain what traits or qualities made women stand out to them. And because, if anything, we love to get an insight into the sick and twisted minds of guys on the internet, here's what they said
Student, teacher in formal wear stand in classroom. Attractive women preparing for lesson. Students and trainees concept.